Friday, September 28, 2007

buddy vs bestie

Tis post actually should update by yesterday or tis morning...but i was too tired to even on the laptop...haha... 3 sumthing in da morning only i reach home ler...from mamak...haha...

Yesterday was da day when my dear dear came back from Port Dickson... i went to ktm serdang to meet him...hehe...miss him alotx... i was kinda irrational as my dad told me...haha.. i took a bus to ktm n took da same bus back from ktm....kinda funny huh? juz to meet my dear dear....irrational ler? but tis is how i enjoy my life... live in unexpected....unplanned....whatever i feel like doing then juz do it! (familiar huh? it's from Nike's slogan la....lol....) Now is holiday la weh...stil wanna plan everything ah? very stressed up de la... keep on plan what should i do...how should it be done...what is da consequences of doing it.... sienz la weh....talk like tis oso sien la....summore live like tis? mayb tis is wat u enjoy but not my style la...haha.....

After meeting my dear dear...at night we went for mamak session wit Kang Xian.... During da starting of da mamak session...was so so so sien....like duno wat to talk but keep on findings stupid topics to talk.... Mayb after warming up... we talked non stop n laugh non stop.... until we din even noticed it is 3am edi... haha....actually we still havent finish talking...but dear dear is too tired edi...he said he cannot tahan edi....pity him lo....so tired stil have to join our mamak session....sorry o...dear dear.....

Stop those mushy stuff....haha....back to da topic....buddy vs bestie...usually buddy is used by guys i think...then bestie is used by gals...but then for me buddy in da same time can be ur bestie....haha.... Da same person i mentioned is Kang Xian da fittest guy!! haha.... dear dear wont jealous de la....haha.... He is da guy or friend that i've da best friendship ever....so who said guy n gal cannot be friends? muz be in special relationship? siapa cakap punya? haha..... even there's so many many friends passed by my life...there's no 1 who can stop so long in my life...(exclude dear dear)

You might be thinking...where is other gals? yea yea....i have gal friends either but duno y they juz cant click with me...perhaps with my straight forward punya sikap they cannot tahan me lo...not all la...some only la...

Since form 1 i know this fella...he was like damn funny la...look like a malay guy(mix too much with malays ma....summore duno how to speak chinese....'banana'....)He is a chinese! haha.... i knew him from the school bus(i took school bus since da 1st day i went to kindergarden....surprisingly i din cry....haha....) Because i cannot tahan for not talking....i always turn to da back seat to talk to him...even he was kinda like "oh...ok....icic...." style of replying me...it still wont stop me from keep on blah-ing....haha...stubborn ler?? i juz cannot tahan of being quiet la.... then tis 'malay' guy very weird 1...he said he got home tuition near my house so everyday he will walk wit my through the alley and pass by my house juz to go to da 'home tuition place'....erm...it makes me kinda weird lo...then ah...everyday whenever he successfully escape from prefect for taking sweets up from canteen...he surely will offer me sweets when he saw me in da koperasi... how nice rite? i was wondering how come tis guy likes to eat sweets so much ah? dun scared diabetes ah? haha.... and then there's 1 day...both of us din notice that it's Valentine's Day...he offer sweets to me as usual...and i juz take it as usual...then Amirul(a fatty) suddenly shout out loud :"hari ini Valentine's Day la...apa u dua org buat ini? bagi gula pun tak bagi sye ke? Oh...aku dah tau... u dua pastinye dating ya?" Both of us was like stunned n blurred....haha.... then da rumours of both of us r dating have been running around da school until FORM 5!!! "Thanks" to Amirul...haha.... That's how it proven that guys can be loud n big speakers too...so dun said gals r da only 1 who can be loud n big speakers....

After that incident....both of us was kinda weird but then after a while...we feel like there's no need for us to feel like tat as it is juz rumours....it's not true!!! haha.... then our friendship is stil on like usual... but then there's few gals happenned to passed by our lives...erm....his live....impact to his la...shock to mine...shock is because there are stil gals who are jealous with me n him punya friendship....apalah.....friendship only what...i think maybe they thought da rumours are true....and me n those gals punya friendship oso affected a bit la... Impact is because this had caused 1 of his break-ups....feel kinda bad for him....sorry,dude....

Whenever me n my parents argued...surely i'll call him n go to his house juz to chill...then he juz know how to say...chill,gal....haha.... everytime when he saw his phone rang n it was me, he'll surely know that i need to chill at his house again....haha....pity him sumtimes....but now have to pity my dear dear lo....he has taken tat responsibility....not to say taken....it is more like inherit or force to have that lo...haha.....

Back to Kang Xian...whenever i have computer problems or i need any software, i'll ask him for help.... or i can say that whenever i need help i'll refer to him 1st....haha....now turned to my dear dear le....Kang Xian aka Jason should feel relieved edi rite? haha..... So you muz be thinking...my dear dear should be my buddy n bestie lo? da answer is no....or not reali....i stil refer things back to Jason....becoz i dowan my dear dear to feel tat i'm troublesome...haha....pity Jason....Until now...whenever i have relationship problem...he is da 1 i consult...haha...can be his case study in his course edi lo....he can be a very pro counsellor after my cases....maybe?

Even his parents made me feel like i'm their daughter ler... even some times when i hang out too late wit Jason, his mother even reminded him that :"she is ppl's daughter ah.... " meaning muz take care of ppl's daughter...haha.... i juz feel very warm....his parents take care of me alot...even took me for dinners n nalanda session.... Here i wanna thanks his parents... Thank you,uncle n auntie....

Da bad thing is...i cant join Jason's clubbing session because of :"I'm ppl's daughter...." haih....then tis has become Jason's reason of not bringing me out sometimes.... Bad Jason!! Bluek!!

Sometimes i'm feel very weird because now my dear dear n him seems to be reali close ler...closer than me n Jason ler....very weird hor? feel damn gay la... guy n guy....haha..... In a way it's good because my dear dear can mix well with my buddy aka bestie....hehe....

Erm....now i'm running out of ideas on what to say edi...haha.... i need to go for lunch lo....Ciao~

2 comments:

Jason Lee Kang Xian said...

Calling me fit is so sarcastic and insulting ya know :P

It has been a while we know each other, since year 2001 to be exact, when we were in secondary1. And yeah, back then I was dark + curly hair, speaking malay language with malay accent. LOL.

Although it was kind of 1 sided of communication at the beginning from you to me, but later I somehow developed the likings to stick with you. Passing the alley, was to go to my former guitar teacher's house, which made me look like I wanted to know where your house is back then. :P (HAHA)

Okay, thanks to Amirul Hidayat[ If you are reading this, please fucking email me, I've tried looking for you high n low, and the contact number you gave me is not working anymore :( ] that somehow made us good friends =)

And yeah, there was a period where I felt embarrassed seeing you due to the rumours. And not only girls jealous, guys who went after you were jealous about me too Im sure :P You know how many guys were going after you.

I'm cool with that break up now, although I was very hurt back then( you know how bad it was), but then, it was that break up that leads me to another relationship, that caused us not talking to each other for a certain period. Remember? You said something bad my relationship with *Ahem U know who* back then.

And you are not to be blamed for that breakup, I'm not pointing any fingers, but that girl listens to her friends 'good' advise that made her wanted to break up with me. And then, 'best' thing was I had to bear all the blame of the break up, all because a girl cries. [ big HAHA here ! ] Ya know, girl cries = guy's fault. [ LMAO ]

We somehow had lots of emotional support for each other back then, when I was down, I'll be looking for you too. Remember what happened when my parents did not allowed me to join NKAA's training? And then later on each time I go missing from home, my parents will assume that I'll be at your place. But there was once, I can't remember where the fuck I went, but I wasn't at your house, and they went to your house looking for me.

So it wasn't just you coming to cool down at my house, I did the same back then. Played PS with your bro [ my fav was Capcom vs Marvel ].

Don't la say until as if Adrian and me are being made used by you to problem only. The fact is we are the one you trust to help you.

LOL! Counsellor -.-"
No comment on that.

Your parents treated me as if I was part of the family too. Too many occasions to mention here. But I truly appreciate their treatment. Sincere thank you to Mr n Mrs Low too [ :D ]

I rather not bring you clubbing even if you are allowed to go. Unless it's a private function. LOL!

Adrian and me being gay?
Oh yes, This is a secret I have to reveal. We are so gay* to have each other and you too [ Big HAHA again ]

*A gay person is fun to be with because they are lively and cheerful. (OLD-FASHIONED)

But trust me, our ass are for exit only, no entry :D


P/s: 7 years of friendship, lots of ups and downs. Not to mention that lots of misunderstanding, conflict, argument and being unhappy with each other due to whatever reasons it was. Sorry for all the wrong doings I've done.

Samantha said...

not insulting la...reali wat...last time u r so so so fat...remember? haha....

hey hey hey, guyS who went after me? got meh? hehe... but i think they wont jealous la...they used u to get me out sumtimes only...not jealous i think... haha...

about da girl cries = guy's fault... i think i told u sumthing like... :"when a deer is crying beside a lion...what do u think? whose fault is that? haha..."

about da time when ur NKAA thing...haha... that time u pierce ur ear...haha...rebellious thing happens all the time...i never teach u to do so...da funny thing was ur parents came over to my place to find u...made everything visible to my parents...my parents stunned at time...haha...i think they thought we r in a relationship MAYBE? haha... not even my bf's parents will come over to my place to find their son...LoLx...

erm...here i wanna apologize to you for whatever stupid things i've done... Sorry ya~